The Software Doctor is -
IN!
My background in computers goes back quite a few years, to the first "computerized" Pfaff that I bought in 1988, just before the first embroidery software programs were becoming available. I can recall telling the salesperson who suggested that I might like to wait for the new model coming out in 6 months (which would connect to your computer), "oh that's okay, I'm not planning to ever get a computer...!" (famous last words - today I have four computers!) Since 1997, when I did get an embroidery machine, I have embraced all sewing software that has been available. It never ceases to amaze me just how far we've come in a relatively short time...
Sewing for me these days is mostly creating my own unique designs for ready-made clothes that I have edited using our 4D Embroidery Software, some completely from scratch and some that I've just "tweaked" a bit to get exactly what I want. I've expanded into Quilting software programs also, including Electric Quilt 5 & 6, QuiltCAD, 4D QBOT software, and my latest favorite, 4D Quilt Design Creator. Today I make quilts to embroider on so that I can combine my hobbies
No. 1, you have the POWER...in your finger...to subject even the most stubborn computer or laptop or software program. You simply exert a little "one-up-manship" over the beast: by threatening it with a sojourn in the closet with no light - i.e., shut off the power!
No. 2, if you are installing a program, and the software asks you to click "Next" or "Okay" to continue, why wouldn't you? Be a nice person. "Next" will only lead you to better things...a properly installed program and a happier computer experience.
I have yet to meet a computer that I didn't like. Even the new Windows 7 operating system...no sweat. Those boys at Microsoft like to think they are making it so EASY for us poor helpless females...especially us older folks who didn't grow up with computers from the time we could walk. Could I tell them a thing or two!!
Same goes for the young know-it-alls at your favorite computer store. They simply assume the you know nothing and that they'll be wasting their time...some don't even hide this condescension. A case in point: I bought a laptop a bit more than a year ago.
The last time he said "I can tell you'll only be doing simple stuff so why would you need a good graphics card anyway..." I looked him right in the eye, told him the exact specifications I wanted and that if he couldn't produce the model I wanted to go find me someone that could without wasting my time.
The next time I went in, I took my brother along for some sibling bonding. This Associate ignored me and focused all his attention (and sales pitch) on Bruce, who simply said, "she knows exactly what you want, don't talk to me." Which didn't work. The Associate still tried to not talk to me, so we went across the street to another computer outlet where they found me exactly what I was looking for and threw in extras without asking.
And I'm willing to bet that most of you, being of a similar age, have experienced something similar...somewhere...sometime...and have been made to feel inadequate or stupid by some know-it-all kid!
I hang out a lot at Sew With Vision - I met the friendliest people there. And so will you - come and see us sometime. I guarantee you'll learn something you didn't know.
